6 Easy Steps to Motivate Yourself

Motivation is something that I had to work hard to get, it never was an easy task for me, from getting up in the morning to working hard on my personal goals, I always seem to find my way out of things, hehe. But as I grew older and became a bit smarter I realized that there are things I will never be good at, but at most things, I can work hard and use the resources I have around me in order to succeed.

As we are closing in on another year, I worked harder on some things and I found a few easy ways that did help me a lot to get myself motivated and push myself. So I thought as we come closer and closer to the new year, we all could use better skills on how to motivate ourselves to do all the things that we want to do and need to do.

So let’s start 😉

1. Find your emotions behind that task

We all heard this many times before, you need to know your why and understand the emotion behind your wants. I heard this many times as well but I never truly give it a deeper thought. I thought I know my whys but I never truly knew it.

What really helped me understand my why, and understand the emotions behind the things I want to do, was so simple that I don’t know why I never used this tool to motivate myself harder. I took a few minutes (no more than 5-10 minutes) and wrote down why I truly want to publish my book or to do any of things I want to accomplish and after I have all the reasons of why I look at each of them and try to feel the emotions after I achieve these things, but truly trying hard to feel all the emotions after achieving my goals.

This is a simple tool but it helps your brain to understand why are you doing what you doing and by connecting your emotions to your tasks and goals, you are much more likely to show up for them and work harder on them.

2. Break your task to smaller bites

Looking at a huge task is always daunting and scary, but breaking that big goal or task into much smaller bites, helps us feel much more accomplish once we achieve that smaller goal or task and that way we are more likely to continue on and finish that huge goal or task.

For example: If you want to write a book – break it down to chapters – a page – a paragraph – continue to break it down to whatever small task you know you can easily achieve, even in your busiest of days or when you just not feeling it.

3. Inspire yourself

Look at other creators and absorb their inspiration, lol, now I know it sounds a bit weird, but everyone and everything can inspire you. so look at a motivating speaking on youtube, or just a write on youtube (or at other creators), listen to a podcast or read a book, go for a walk. Try and find something in your surroundings that will inspire you and give you the right push you need. There are a lot of things right now in your immediate surroundings that I am sure can inspire you and motivate you, you just need to ask for it and look around to find it.

4. Make it fun

If the task is too daunting and too scary, even after you tried everything else I suggest you try and make it a bit fun.

For example: When I do the dish (And I hate every moment of it, lol), I always put on my headphones and blast upbeat music and I literally dance next to sink while I wash the dishes, hehe… I know… I know… I’m weird. But for me, it helps, lol, a lot.

Try and do something you love while doing something you hate or not looking for so much, or just scared to start.

5. Schedule your tasks and goals

Understanding the why, the emotions, after we broke things down to small bites, inspired ourselves and even made things more fun, we still need to schedule it all in our busy lives and put all of our tasks and goal into a calendar or planner and give everything a deadline, a date that you think you will be done with that task or goal.

Be real with yourself, and know that you can’t really finish writing your entire book in a week, lol, well maybe you can but I know I can’t 😀 So try to think ahead a see with everything that is going on in your life right now and that might be in your life how will you fit your writing?

Look at things as how they truly are and not how you wish it to be on an ideal day, week or month. For me, this was a big lesson I learned this year. I learned that in order to truly make good progress, I need to know how long it will take me with all that is going on or that can be and schedule them all.

6. Use a timer

I am a strong believer in using a timer for a few years now. This by far the best immediate productivity tool I use. I set my timer for 5 minutes and go around an area in my house picking things up and organizing or washing the dishes. I set the timer for 20-30 minutes for a writing session and I use my timer for many more things in my daily routine.

If you want to see how much a minute is truly is, just set a timer and look at how long it takes for the time to pass. so imagine how much time is 5 minutes or 20. You can achieve more when you know that the time is running out, haha. A timer shows you the passing time and that is a very powerful tool, so try it and let me know how it goes 😉

What motivates you to do things you don’t really want to do, or just scared to do?

As always, thank you so much for reading ❤


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Book Review: The Birth of Death (The Legacy of Evorath #1) by Joseph Macolino

My review is up 🙂

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Author: Joseph Macolino 
Release Date: 8th June 2014
Genre: Fantasy
Edition: E-book
Pages: 1,378
Publisher: Create Space

Rating: ★★★★


Artimus, the head investigator for the elvish kingdom of Erathal, is disturbed when he discovers that the culprit behind a recent string of kidnappings presents the greatest threat the world of Evorath has ever seen. As he develops feelings for Savannah, a beautiful elvish druid hiding a great secret, he struggles to separate his personal feelings from his responsibilities to the crown. Meanwhile, Irontail, a young centaur warrior, endeavors to find his way in a tribe where independent thought is discouraged.
When their paths cross, the entire forest must unite, performing an ancient ritual to combat this new evil. While the world of Evorath deals with this great threat, Artimus and his companions must put their internal conflicts to rest as they work together to combat this harbinger…

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Book Review: Lake Of Fire (Apostates Book #3) by Lars Teeney

My Review is up at Heena’s Blog 😀

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Author: Lars Teeney
Release Date: 1st July 2016
Genre: Science-Fiction, Dystopian
Edition: E-book
Pages: 250
Publisher: Xcism Press

Rating: ★★★★★


Archon Greta Sanchez and Strategos Evan Nubia struggle to hold together the Manhattan Union, amid Acolyte Possession Attacks, factional strife, and Database cartel crimes, while Sister Consuela Grajales tries to provide spiritual guidance to the people after she has renounced violence. But, when the Acolyte Possessions threaten all of their families directly the former Apostates consult Simon Schrubb about this mysterious threat. Simon Schrubb directs them to seek out Paradise, a hypothetical super backup server that just may hold the key to the Acolytes. And so, they set off in an armored convoy across the radioactive city ruins and dead tree littered wastelands on their perilous quest.
Little do the Apostates know that Apedemak Nubia and his Nubian Braves fight for control of their home, Sulfur Springs, which…

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Mini Update


Hey everyone,

Sorry for the long absence (again).

I was still feeling ill and my mom had to move to a new home. We had to search fast for a new and better home for her and finally, we found one.

It is close by so I can still visit her a lot and I hope that slowly she will love it there ❤

Even though this move was very emotional for her and physically challenging, I still think that this new place is a bit more suitable for her needs. Moving to a new place is always scary and it feels weird for both of us, but I think she is ready for a new start and maybe she will be able to feel as this is her new home.

What about me?

Well… I still have this sore throat going on (yep, still), maybe it’s just due to the cold weather (I really don’t know, nor the doctor knows, lol). I feel tired but I know that things will come down (they had to, right?).

Things I have done:

My revision is all done ((Happy Dance)).

I’m is still at the beginning with my editing, but I did start ((so proud)), lol.

I am almost done with the review for the book I just finished reading for Heena 🙂

Decluttered my computer (a bit) and mostly my closets.

Other than that everything goes on the back burner because my mom has a lot of doctors appointments this month, due to a surgery she is about to undergo, so… there are many things to plan and do.

However, I have already scheduled a few posted that will be posted this week and next week and even 2 new + old series that will come by the end of the month (Oh yeah.. Feeling very productive, lol) 😀

Btw, if you ever want to reach me just to talk or ask me something, I downloaded most of my social media accounts to my phone so I could be more connected with you all ❤ I missed you all so much ❤

I have tons of blog posts reading, lol, to do on the weekend and I can’t wait to see what I’ve missed 😀

I hope you all having a nice day and I will see you on Friday 😀

As always, thank you so much for reading ❤

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Quick Update


Hello to all my readers and fellow bloggers,

Today is the day I am leaving to London (yey) and we are all packed and ready to drive to the airport 💗

I am so sorry that I was M.I.A for so much. These past two weeks we had such stressful days with our dog and now I hope that our veterinarian will manage to help her. 
Wish us luck 😉

Due to a masive request (you guys are amazing, thank you) I will update my instagram daily (maybe hourly, lol) about our trip… So prepare to be spammed all over instagram, twitter, facebook and even my blog 💗
So don’t forget to check these out 😉

Have a wonderful weekend and day and I will try to write soon.

I will miss you all and I promise to catch up on your posts once we have landed and are well rested.

Btw, if you saw my instagram you know that a new story popped into my head and since then I am writing non stop (writing so far on my phone, lol).

Okay, must finish this post and we are off to the airport ✈


All About The Books


Hello to all my lovely readers and friends 🙂

Before I will start with this post, I wanted to share a nomination I received by the lovely Fia The Very Inspiring Blogger Award . I updated the nomination, as I already have done it… So you can find it at the awards page ❤

Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about my books and how I see myself as a reader (not just as a writer).

A few nights ago I had a dream about hubby, myself and our books, lol. I will not get into too much detail, but I would say it made me think a lot. Both hubby and I have about 400 books in our house (and I read more than that so far).

Hubby is not much of a reader these days, as his work is too demanding and he is much more into gaming. I am a very avid reader (to say the least) and my TBR (To Be Read) list is at almost 500 books so far.

Sorry for the ramblings…

I wanted to make this poll and to read your thoughts on what do you prefer when you read. Is it printed books only or you have a Kindle or other e-book app as well? I wanted to know what are your thoughts on this and if you do like kindle or apps, what kind?

So far I have my Lenovo tablet and I have the Kindle app on it. It’s nice to read from it as it has a huge screen, but it comes with a price of being too heavy after a while of reading. I love reading, I can’t even say how much I love reading books and feel and smell them, but as time passes by I am leaning towards the Kindle or other e-books readers or apps and buy only the most and best of the printed books, The ones that just say… Wow!

Now, before you get too emotional about it, lol, I must say that most of the books I have are good books, that I really enjoyed reading more than just once (more than 10 times, even). I would love to have a huge library in my house filled with books from top to bottom, but I need to be realistic as well about owning so many books 😀

So I thought I would start looking around, reading posts and articles about it until I will have a more solid opinion of what to do. After all, I will not stop buying books, but I might not buy that many printed books in the future. Maybe… I don’t know yet, lol.

I made a little poll about this in the hope that you can help me with that… If you have any other suggestions feel free to share them in the comments below.

What kind of books would you prefer to buy (printed books) and what kind would you buy for Kindle or other apps?

Don’t forget to vote or comment before you leave 😉

As always, thank you so much for reading ❤


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